By Amy Howe
When it comes to building a community of care, the Joplin Association for the Blind (JAB) exemplifies what’s possible when compassion meets dedication. Leading the charge are Rob O’Brian and his family, whose collective efforts epitomize the spirit of volunteerism. Together, they bring joy, connection and vital support to those facing vision challenges, proving that service is not just an individual pursuit but a family affair.
A Legacy of Service
The Joplin Association for the Blind, established in 1923, provides a range of services for individuals with low vision or blindness. Executive Director Stephanie Mann describes their programs as a lifeline. “We offer an Adult Program with weekly lunches and social activities, a Transportation Program for eye-related appointments, and a Low Vision Enhancement Center where magnification tools help clients regain independence,” she shares.
Volunteers are the backbone of these services, and Mann proudly highlights the collective dedication of all who contribute. “Marge O’Brian, Rob’s wife, serves as our head cook and, along with her sister-in-law Becky Brinson, prepares meals, decorates the dining hall and ensures everything is spotless,” Mann shares. Rob and other volunteers like Tony Brinson, who is Rob’s brother-in-law, and John Alford handle transportation to ensure clients can attend weekly lunches and special events.
“It’s truly a family tradition for some of our volunteers,” Mann adds. “My own mother, Charlene Stockton, who is 91, and her sisters Donna Ryon and Edwina Morey, ages 81 and 89, also lend their time and talents. Their dedication inspires us all.”The Journey to JABRob’s involvement began as a favor to Marge when she became a full-time volunteer eight years ago. “Even while I was at the Chamber of Commerce, I’d drive the bus when they were short-handed. After I retired in 2018, I started volunteering regularly,” he says. Rob not only transports clients but also serves meals and helps clean up.
For Rob, the most rewarding part of volunteering is the camaraderie. “For many members, the weekly lunch is their only chance to socialize. It’s wonderful to see them laugh and share stories,” he reflects.
Marge echoes Rob’s sentiment, noting how volunteering brings out the best in everyone. “Each family member finds their strength and shines. Watching them interact with the members, I see a side of them I don’t usually see—a blend of humor, compassion and attentiveness,” she says.
Rob’s sister Becky, who started volunteering after her retirement, appreciates the relationships she has formed with those at JAB. “It’s inspiring to see how they adapt to low vision. Their resilience motivates me,” she shares.
Becky’s husband, Tony, finds joy in the simple act of connection. “Seeing everyone weekly and having fun with them is incredibly fulfilling,” he says.
Stories That Stay with You
The O’Brians’ time at JAB is filled with moments that linger long after the day is done. Marge fondly recalls Phyllis White, a talented artist who attended weekly lunches. “She gifted me hand-painted ceramics after learning I admired her work. It reminded me how a small compliment can leave a lasting impact,” Marge says.
Rob treasures the stories clients share about their pasts, particularly from a former truck driver named Matt. “Matt had a sharp wit and loved talking about classic muscle cars. He always kept us laughing,” he recalls. For Tony, the most poignant stories come from his riders. “They often share how much they miss the freedom of going places on their own. It’s a reminder of why our work is so important,” he says.
The Impact of Volunteerism
Mann emphasizes the essential role volunteers play in JAB’s success. “Without them, we couldn’t provide the level of care and connection our members need. Whether it’s driving, cooking or preparing for fundraisers, every contribution matters,” she says.
In addition to the O’Brians, the organization relies on individuals like Dr. Jefferson Barkley, a volunteer optometrist who helps clients explore tools like electronic readers. “Recently, we helped a man regain his ability to read household bills using an electronic magnifier. Moments like these are what we strive for,” Mann shares.
A Tradition of Caring
For the O’Brian family, volunteering at the Joplin Association for the Blind is more than a commitment—it’s a community. “In many ways, we’re all a big family here,” Rob says. Whether through a warm meal, a safe ride or a kind word, their efforts remind us of the profound impact we can have when we come together to serve others.
How You Can Help
The Joplin Association for the Blind is always looking for new volunteers. Opportunities include driving, kitchen assistance, lawn care and helping with fundraisers. Mann encourages families to get involved together. “Volunteering as a family creates a shared purpose and strengthens bonds. Just look at the O’Brians—they’re proof of how powerful this can be.
To learn more about the Joplin Association for the Blind, visit jaforblind.org or call 417.623.5721. Their Facebook pages offers updates on programs and events.
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